I’ve just come back from a very cold and frosty walk down to the river and back. The light was beautiful, all orange and yellow, contrasted against a crisp blue sky – everything was glowing and glittering, but also frozen, still…resting, waiting. I got me thinking about New Year resolutions, and this pressure to create yourself anew on the 1 st of January every.single.year…it’s exhausting! Even more so if you’re grieving and processing loss. Winter, and especially January is